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Surjit Kaur
B: 1941-06-15
D: 2020-09-25
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Kaur, Surjit
Regina Smith
B: 1958-07-01
D: 2020-09-24
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Smith, Regina
Gurnam Singh
B: 1957-02-10
D: 2020-09-23
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Singh, Gurnam
Mark Lutz
B: 1958-07-29
D: 2020-09-22
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Lutz, Mark
Sukhnanand Lall
B: 1947-04-18
D: 2020-09-19
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Lall, Sukhnanand
Thora Barnes
B: 1936-03-26
D: 2020-09-17
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Barnes, Thora
Rampeearie Baboolal
B: 1935-01-12
D: 2020-09-04
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Baboolal, Rampeearie
Hardev Kaur
B: 1928-01-01
D: 2020-09-03
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Kaur, Hardev
Marva Perry
B: 1950-07-15
D: 2020-08-27
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Perry, Marva
Helen Elcock
B: 1934-01-01
D: 2020-08-20
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Elcock, Helen
Tyrone Bundrige
B: 1958-10-12
D: 2020-08-20
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Bundrige, Tyrone
Carmen Roberts
B: 1934-02-05
D: 2020-08-20
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Roberts, Carmen
Ivin Shirley
B: 1960-09-08
D: 2020-08-19
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Shirley, Ivin
Banta Singh
B: 1931-09-02
D: 2020-08-17
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Singh, Banta
Eugenio Cabezas
B: 1956-02-19
D: 2020-08-16
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Cabezas, Eugenio
Raman Kumar
B: 1982-01-07
D: 2020-08-16
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Kumar, Raman
J. Bhagratee
B: 1969-01-18
D: 2020-08-12
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Bhagratee, J.
Celerino Valencia Carreto
B: 1968-02-03
D: 2020-08-06
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Valencia Carreto, Celerino
Rajkaram Sukhdeo
B: 1951-02-07
D: 2020-08-03
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Sukhdeo, Rajkaram
Hermine Williams
B: 1927-10-15
D: 2020-08-03
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Williams, Hermine
Lydia Gilmore
B: 1953-03-19
D: 2020-08-03
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Gilmore, Lydia

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Funerals vs. Celebrations of Life

It's interesting; funerals and celebrations-of-life have much in common, yet they often appear very different. Each is a ceremony; a gathering of people who share a common loss. It's just that one is more rooted in tradition, while the other is the result of recent changes in social values. But both serve to do three things:

1. Help the bereaved family, and their community, publically acknowledge the death of one of their own.

2. Support the grieving family by surrounding them with caring friends, co-workers, and neighbors.

3. Move the deceased from one social status to another.

Yet they achieve those things in very different ways. First, let's take a closer look at what most of us commonly see as very traditional funerals.

The Funeral

It's not surprising funerals have been around for a very long time. Composed of three activities, the visitation, the funeral service, and the disposition.  Disposition can take the form of burial, cremation or shipping.  If the deceased is being shipped, once he/she reaches their final destination, burial or cremation will take place.

The Visitation: Held prior to the funeral, often the night before but sometimes on the same day, the visitation (or viewing) is a time when people come to support the family and, more importantly, pay their respects to the deceased. This often involves stepping up to the casket to view the body; either in the company of a member of the surviving family or on your own.

The Funeral Service: Commonly held in the funeral home or church, the traditional funeral service is led by an officiant of one kind or another; most commonly a religious leader or the funeral director. This individual follows a very predictable funeral order of service which includes the singing of religious songs, both religious and literary readings, in addition to prayers led by the officiant.

The Committal Service: This takes place at the cemetery, after a slow and respectful automobile procession from the place where the funeral was held. The committal service ends when the casketed remains are lowered into the ground, and final prayers are said.

If you'd like to know more about the history of funerals in the United States, you may like to visit the website of the National Museum of Funeral History. But for now, it's enough to know that a funeral service traditionally has these three distinct components. Now let's look at a celebration-of-life service.

Celebrations-of-Life

Celebrations-of-life are similar to memorial services, which can be described as a hybrid event; combining the flexibility of a celebration-of-life with many of the activities of a traditional funeral order-of-service.

There's more room for creativity in a celebration-of-life than a funeral.  And without doubt, this allows you to make better decisions about how you'd like to celebrate the life of someone you dearly loved.

Are You Undecided? Turn to Us

We've got years of experience listening, brainstorming, and advising families how they can best pay tribute to a beloved family member. That means we're the perfect people to help you decide between a funeral and a celebration-of -life. We'll explore your funeral service options with you in detail, taking all the time you need.